Female succession, post-feminism and Japan
Even though it is called “The Last Word“, I always check that feature first on every weekly issue of Metropolis Magazine Online. Marie Iida , an editorial assistant at Metropolis , has written about the disappointment of Japanese women when the government discarded Junichiro Koizumi’s proposal to allow female heirs inherit the Throne, following the birth of Prince Hisahito to Princess Kiko and Prince Akishino last month. But what really prompted me to comment about her “last word” is this assertive, and somewhat worrisome, passage:
It’s true that the ladies of Japan haven’t been doing too badly these days. We’re doing markedly better career-wise—you can bet that all those high-end brand stores in Ginza are not being built for men. We can even choose to stay single forever and leave Japan childless instead of opting to marry manga-reading worker bees. And after years of being randomly fondled by strangers, we have won the right to group all different kinds of women into a body odor-free train decorated with hot-pink flowers, the Japanese metro’s nod to grrrl power.
It does say much indeed, albeit not necessarily true. Actually I couldn’t fathom her irony, nor understand in what way a shrinking society could be considered “not too bad”, as far as Japanese women concerned, or is it that driving the business in Ginza is enough to consider that “the ladies of Japan” are scoring a point?
And suppose Prince Hisahito had never been born, would female imperial successions be a giant step in post-feminism in Japan? or would it merely hide a much different reality of Japanese women, or to say the least, much different from their Western counterparts?
I’d like to hear your say on the topic, I am still perplexed by that passage!
I actually have heard it argued that a population decrease in Japan wouldn’t be a terrible thing, given the population density. But that wasn’t really Iida’s point.
She’s not looking at things from a broad perspective. She’s talking about how life has improved for the individual Japanese woman. Her argument is simply that now women don’t feel as pressured to get married, that they can take care of themselves instead. This is a freedom that other generations didn’t have.
The Ginza argument is a little indirect, but I believe she was saying that women have greater purchasing power because they are making more money. I’m not sure if this argument can be backed up, however–when I was in Japan, a gentleman I met told me that women rule household finances. (Please let me know if this isn’t the case, O men of Japundit!) If that’s true, then any increase in shopping could just as easily be attributed to a rise in husbands’ paychecks.
I don’t think she’s saying that things are perfect. I think her point is more that women’s issues are a greater factor in daily life now than they’ve been before. And she’s saying that these steps forward made her believe that Japan had come a lot farther with women’s issues than it actually had, and that the shelving of the reigning empress issue showed her that that wasn’t the case.
That sort of epiphany is always depressing. It’s kind of like how I feel when I think about the likelihood of the US having a female president.
October 13th, 2006 at 9:19 am(Please let me know if this isn’t the case, O men of Japundit!)
In a word Heather – Yes it’s true
(plus hesoguri)…:shock:
October 13th, 2006 at 9:27 amI’d say YES too! well , even though generalizing would be inappropriate!!
October 13th, 2006 at 9:35 amI can relate Heather’s interpretation, but that “manga-readers working bees” is a lil bit , let’s say, awkward!
hesoKuri not hesoGuri…apologies.:oops:
October 13th, 2006 at 10:11 amI don’t really understand Japanese women’s perceptions of manga. I had read that everyone grows up with manga and has happy memories of it, but it seems that the modern, young Japanese woman looks down her nose at it. Or at least, that’s the case for the ones I’ve met (which is not a whole lot, sadly). Maybe they think it’s something from childhood, and that men who still read it into adulthood haven’t grown up? I don’t know.
Regardless, it would appear that men who read manga and men who do nothing but work are unattractive to Iida.
October 13th, 2006 at 10:32 amHeather, it is common practice here for the wife to control household finances, but it has more to do with the perception that men are above such issues than it has to do with women’s power. In my case, thank goodness the wife manages things.
However, a significant number of those manga-reading worker bees spend so much money out drinking with their buddies at night at izakaya and sunaku, and going golfing or fishing on weekends, that it doesn’t leave a whole lot of financial wherewithal for the wife to manage. (No doubt one reason younger Japanese women are not overly enthusiastic about marriage and child bearing/rearing.)
As for shopping, Japanese women have always had an eye for the latest in fashion, home grown or foreign, and spent a lot on it. However, the trend (I have developed an aversion for the word, trend, precisely because of the Japanese obsession with the trendy) has become a major current among the younger women who have refused to marry, live either at home with their parents or frugally in small apartments, spend a lot of money on trendy designer clothes and accessories, go out to fine restaurants with female cohorts and make elaborate trips overseas for the holidays. Even down here in the unglamorous boonies, young women are opting out of marriage, taking whatever jobs they can find and staying with their parents, taking care of them while their brothers all seek their fortunes in the big city.
This isn’t really such a new phenomenon, either; it has been abuilding for a few decades as women have been able to secure incrementally better education and jobs, and as they have learned to defy society’s demands of them. For example, my wife has four lifelong friends from her days in the dormitory of a prestigious university from which they all graduated. All of them are now in their fifties. Of the five women, two have remained unmarried and childless, pursuing careers, content with independent lives, fine clothes, seldom cooking at home and traveling extensively and adventurously all over the world. Each of them owns her own house and will visit boyfriends’ homes, but not allow reciprocal visits. One of the married women, despite having three children, has built a substantial career in publishing, depending heavily on her husband’s parents for day to day management of the children’s affairs, and another has done similarly as a careerist with JAL while depending on her parents to manage the daytime lives of her two children. My wife is a school teacher who was one of those expired Christmas cakes when we met. She had no plans to marry. Partly because of the lateness, we have no children.
There you have it: five well-educated, ambitious women have managed to have only five children among them, and they are from a generation that graduated from college almost thirty years ago. It’s a personal perspective, but it ties in closely with what I glean in conversations with younger women. And the snowball is rolling downhill. Japanese women just aren’t going for the old business of boorish, neglectful husbands, tyrannical mothers’ in law, duty to procreate and raise the future of the nation, etc., etc. Until Japanese society finds a way to change those realities for its young women, the birth rate will continue to plummet.
What the old bulls in the political china closet, so used to always having it their way, don’t realize is that as long as the nation and society are held within their narrow, Neanderthal view of things, the situation will only get worse. Masako and her daughter represented a good opportunity for all, but the macho guys would have none of it, and the young women with so much at stake were all out shopping or playing with their keitai denwa while the issue came around, then went up in a puff of smoke.
As the 1st SAS motto very appropriately goes: Who dares wins. And as the old saying goes: He who hesitates is lost. Koizumi dared, but too many people with real interest in the issue hesitated, or were simply out to lunch.
October 13th, 2006 at 11:18 amHeather, manga for women sell just fine here. They may not take up quite as much rack space as those for men, but the numbers are substantial. Subjects range from bodice rippers to family issues to comedy to outright porn. You are right to suspect that your acquaintances’ distaste for manga is not representative of the whole.
My prejudiced view is that ANYONE who reads them has some growing up to do. But maybe that’s because I’m such a snob I never read them, so I don’t know what I’m missing. There are those who advocate reading them to learn colloquial Japanese, but I’ve always found you can do that on the street.
October 13th, 2006 at 11:50 amA good tie-in here, even if I still don’t know what this woman’s point is:
http://mdn.mainichi-msn.co.jp/waiwai/news/20061011p2g00m0dm016000c.html
October 13th, 2006 at 7:07 pmI think in many respects if the prince hadn’t been born, a change in the law would have been a bit of a red-herring. It would only be worth anything if reformists took the argument directly on and won it. Winning by default won’t do anything.
October 13th, 2006 at 8:09 pmTrue, Raj, but sometimes you have to take your victories where you can get ‘em.
October 13th, 2006 at 8:15 pmoveroften, the point is that the “victory” wouldn’t really mean much and would give people a false sense of security. A lot of foreign advocates of reforming the law really were just doing it to “get one over the oyaji-san”. They weren’t really interested in women’s rights.
Now, from one of the previous topics here, polls showing support for reform seem to have strengthened after the birth, not weakened. So the birth may actually spark MORE debate about women in Japan, rather than smother it. There is a real opportunity to push for change now, if activists will only take it up.
On the matter of the succession, to be honest even if it had been another girl the conservatives could have still pushed for the law to simply be reformed to allow women to sit on the throne “as an emergency”. Again, that would not have changed very much. Now the debate is actually firmly about whether or not women should sit on the throne as of right of birth or not, given the eldest child of the monarch has a child himself – so why should the first child of the second son take precedence? If this question is repeatedly asked, it could cause more trouble for the conservatives than before the birth.
October 13th, 2006 at 9:47 pmIt’s just regular old-hat feminism; there’s nothing post- about it. I’m not really sure what’s supposed to be so cryptic about this passage.
October 13th, 2006 at 11:03 pmIn societies where women have job opportunities, access to education and purchasing power, the birth rate always declines. It’s a first world phenonmenon, and not just in Japan.
I take it she’s being ironic, that the “advances” she lists aren’t really all that much and aren’t really indicative of women being able to act as powerful agents in their own rights. Or something like that.
Raj seems to have interpreted this passage as I did.
Kaishin, thanks for posting and taking the lead on this discussion.
October 14th, 2006 at 1:05 amanonymous
October 14th, 2006 at 3:56 am“It’s just regular old-hat feminism”>>> That’s what she used to describe it anyway!
“I’m not really sure what’s supposed to be so cryptic about this passage.”>>> The advances she cited aren’t as positive as they may seem, as far as feminists concerned!
You’re right Marie, the writer appears to have been being ironic, and trying to stimulate some badly needed open debate on the issue. And to “anonymous:” “old-hat feminism” is hardly an appropriate term in light of the condition of women in Japan. I’m not even a feminist; I just believe in equal rights/equal opportunity. We’re still a long way from that here. It isn’t a “feminist” issue, it’s an issue of fundamental importance to everyone in Japan. Without reforming the system to better recognize and allow, and reward, women’s contribution, we cannot depend on them to contribute effectively, and that, perhaps surprisingly, will keep the birth rate down. I would contend that the First World phenomenon of declining birth rate as women acquire more education and opportunity is an intermediate stage, that the birth rate will come back once all the kinks are worked out. It’s a big project, and since no one has gone through it before, except maybe the Etruscans or some Pacific Island cultures, there are a lot of unknowns that have to be met and dealt with as they arrive. That says to me, the sooner a society starts, the sooner it will be better off.
October 14th, 2006 at 8:25 amThe original article didn’t work for me, partly because it was unclear whether she was being ironic or not. The tone shifted a lot.
She did write, without apparent irony, about “having it all” (kids, a loving husband, a career, 3 weeks a year in Bora Bora, whatever).
It’s a misconception built up by the media that this is even possible. Kids take an enormous amount of time, and a good bit of money as well. My own opinion is that the trend of both parents pursuing careers while their kids languish in some form of daycare, or even with a series of nannies, is creating a generation of screwed up people.
While the mother-in-law in Japan can be a real problem, the extended family is the only decent way both parents can work and raise kids. Unfortunately, mobile societies are eliminating that set-up.
Rick, you are an optimist about working the kinks out. It may be all kinks.
My own view is that Japan would be making a mistake by emulating the Western model. But, maybe this is simply the unavoidable latter part of a society’s lifespan. I hope Japan finds a new path.
October 14th, 2006 at 9:22 amI’ve seen two articles recently about how supposedly ambitious career women in the US are dropping out of their high powered jobs. That is not just a few, as it was a couple of years ago, but lots of them. Hard to believe, but they are saying things such as the work isn’t fulfilling enouhg, they’d rather have children and a family. It seems a very new phenomenon, because they are dropping all the way out to have kids and family, not trying to string multiple lifestyles together. That is the kind of thing I was referring to.
I fully agree with you, Ghoti, Japan, and Japanese women, would be better off not emulating what has happened in the West, but dare I say it? The cows are out of the barn now. We’ll just have to go through the same cycle here, or some uniquely Japanese version. (Uniquely said with tongue in cheek.)
October 14th, 2006 at 4:30 pmThat paragraph Kaishin quoted makes Iida sound like a selfish, man-hating feminazi. She probably is one. Her essay as a whole would be more effective as an argument for abolishing the imperial system entirely instead of “reforming” it.
Rick also doesn’t mention what he means when he talks about kinks and an intermediate stage, or why Japan’s birthrate will pick up. Neither he nor anybody else here has said how Japanese women are being kept down.
October 16th, 2006 at 6:16 amIt’s true, Rick, the articles about women choosing family over career have started to appear in the US. Speaking from my own anecdotal experience, I’ve seen many women make this choice. In some cases, women who made more money than men prior to starting their families were willing to give up their jobs–with no small amount of personal wrestling.
But the more that I read, the more that I realize Japan and the US aren’t the same (duh). I hadn’t realized, for example, that the percentage of single women, or women choosing to remain single, is much higher in Japan than the US. The expectations are different and seem to be culturally based. Broadly speaking, there are so many services in place to support women in Japan to actually live single lives (those condos, the no-grope train cars, etc.) And, once a woman gets married in Japan, the expectations are clear; go have a kid and preferably a boy. The same pressure doesn’t really exist here in the US.
Your comments, therefore, are tremendously insightful. Thank you for posting.
October 25th, 2006 at 10:32 pm